Networking: It's More Than Having a Facebook

In our last class session we heard from 3 inspiring women about the importance of networking. Originally, I never thought much of this method of communication and opportunity. I didn't even think the concept would apply to me much because I didn't want to go into the big business world. However, the knowledge provided by Mary B., Melanie Martin Jones, and Andrea Namish gave me a much better understanding of what we call networking. Networking is a tool for building connections and learning who you are outside of your business. In some ways it provides a challenge to your career. One thing that was stated many times last Wednesday was the statement, "you are in charge of your own success." By finding common interests, and goals women are able to create relationships which can then lead to opportunities. Mary B. added, "When women bond together, they strive together." Networking isn't just about getting yourself out there, but also finding who else is out there. The women taught us to take more of a shy approach when mingling at a conference for example. Rather than boring the stranger with information about your hometown, high school, and bucket list, listen to what she has to say. From her stories engage in questions that may result in more detail, this will often lead you to finding common interests between the stranger you just met and yourself. Also, networking is about helping others. By listening to their stories maybe you can suggest someone that could be of assistance to their needs or struggles, maybe that person is you. In this process you want to make yourself memorable. This means, the information you share should be genuine. You want these people to remember you and consider your skills valuable to them and their coworkers, making it a necessity to always be yourself. Now, after establishing a relationship with a woman at one conference, she will meet another woman who has common interests to you and another network is created. Networking is more than talking about your career and hoping someone will care, it's about sharing your story and genuinely caring for the person on the other end. Andrea Namish closed her presentation with a thought that I think we all would benefit considering, "We are all on a journey, who do you want to take with you?"

Respect Your Beauty

Last week's session was the most inspirational for me so far. Besides the fact that President Krendl and a fellow student of ours were interviewed for their leadership positions and strength as a woman, we had amazing speakers. It was a blessing to have Chasity Kuttrus speak to the girls last Wednesday. As a business owner and a mother, Chasity lives a very busy life, but she has learned how to manage her time wisely in the many roles she plays. Her speech provided me with reassurance. I was very active in volunteering, and school funded organizations in my high school, and often struggled with managing my time wisely. There were so many things I wanted to do and so many people I wanted to help. Still in college I am provided with these amazing opportunities, but this time I knew I would have to make a change. Chasity talked about making balancing our lives. Choosing what things are the most important to us and how we wish to use our strengths and talents. Rather than sugarcoating statistics, Chasity was very honest about the inequality of women to men. In 99% of all occupations, women are still earning less than men. But instead of sulking and complaining about our stubborn society she showed us to use those stats as motivation. Although I may not earn as much pay as my male coworker I will know that I am trying harder, I have a better relationship with my employees, and I am making a difference through what I do best, whatever that may be. We also heard form 3 women in our own fitness/health group at Otterbein. They reminded us that while we prove ourselves as women we must respect ourselves. We cannot forget about eating meals just because after working a long, tedious day. It is extremely important that we nourish our body with food to give us enough energy so that we are able to continue this hard work. Also, we have to  make time for exercising. Whether taking yoga, zumba, running on the treadmill, or playing basketball, we have to keep ourselves in shape. You will find that after you get into the groove of exercising and eating healthy you feel rested, energized, and beautiful. No matter what size, weight, or color we are all beautiful. I am so excited to be in this sisterhood of such intelligent and motivated girls. See you at the gym!

Women in Leadership: Serendipity

First I should say that I am loving our FYS Women in Leadership class. There is a sense of sisterhood and empowerment; each Wednesday night at 6 gives off a good vibe. At our first class meeting we were given the chance to re-introduce ourselves and share the name of a woman leader whom we would like to research throughout the semester. It's amazing how many strong women are in our world that others don't know about. When we take the time to share our experiences and talk about our thoughts and beliefs, we learn so much more. I for one am inspired.

After class we walked to 'Serendipity'. A local coffee and ice cream shop in downtown Westerville. A musician of Otterbein was performing acoustics and the parlor welcomed us in. There is a strong sense of community at this university. Although we may be small, it is a guarantee that once you come here you become part of a family. Aside from gaining a wonderful education and experience, you gain support. 

Being a student of Otterbein provides me with a sense of safety, connection, and support. I love that our school is so accepting of peoples skills, talents, and interests. One of the benefits of a small community is that no matter who you are, where you are, or what you stand for, you are accepted. Seeing the performance at Serendipity gave me a clearer view of what this school is about. We support others, and in return they support us. 

I know my blog doesn't have much of anything to do with women in leadership yet, but maybe it's hidden underneath. I feel confident that whatever ideas I bring to the table, whatever song I sing, and whatever paper I write, it will be appreciated. I can make a difference at this school, along with all of my sisters. Girls rock.

Hannah